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02-03-24

18:58
Ήμουν 1000% σίγουρη, αυτό υποψιάστηκα.Μαλλον προσπαθω να σας χειραγωγήσω!![]()
Τώρα θα μοιραστείς τα αποτελέσματά σου μαζί μας ή όχι;
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02-03-24

18:59
Θα τα μοιραστώ κουκλίτσα μου, παίξε εσυ, να δειξεις πρωτα ποσο κρινος εισαι και μετα θα σκασει μυτη ο Θεος του ΣκότουςΉμουν 1000% σίγουρη, αυτό υποψιάστηκα.
Τώρα θα μοιραστείς τα αποτελέσματά σου μαζί μας ή όχι;

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02-03-24

19:09
Έπαιξα και απ' ό,τι φαίνεται δεν είμαι καθόλου κρίνος. Ευτυχώς όμως βγήκα αυτό που περίμενα (και που κυρίως ήθελα πάρα πολύ):Θα τα μοιραστώ κουκλίτσα μου, παίξε εσυ, να δειξεις πρωτα ποσο κρινος εισαι και μετα θα σκασει μυτη ο Θεος του Σκότους![]()
Δε με έχω για τόσο Μακιαβελική βέβαια, αλλά τέλος πάντων.
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02-03-24

19:12
Στοίχημα ότι θα μας φανερωθεί κανένας Βάλντερ τώρα με Machiavellism 5/5
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02-03-24

19:13
Και εμένα πολύ Μακιαβελικό με έβγαλε, δε το περίμενα
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02-03-24

19:13
4,1 Μακιαβελική; Σε αγαπώ.-Έπαιξα και απ' ό,τι φαίνεται δεν είμαι καθόλου κρίνος. Ευτυχώς όμως βγήκα αυτό που περίμενα (και που κυρίως ήθελα πάρα πολύ):
View attachment 130268Δε με έχω για τόσο Μακιαβελική βέβαια, αλλά τέλος πάντων.
Εγω, μωρά μου λατρεμένα, πάρτε με, δικός σας:
Gag, fuck and shit!
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02-03-24

19:16
Το τερμάτισες Valder στο μακιαβελισμό4,1 Μακιαβελική; Σε αγαπώ.-
Εγω, μωρά μου λατρεμένα, πάρτε με, δικός σας:
View attachment 130275
Gag, fuck and shit!
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02-03-24

19:16
Ωρα να με ακολουθησετε καλέ μου φίλε. Εισαι σε πολύ καλό δρόμο και ειμαι υπερηφανος για σένα!Το τερμάτισες Valder στο μακιαβελισμό
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02-03-24

19:23
Ε εγώ το περίμενα λίγο. Και βασικά το προτιμώ από το να έβγαινα ψυχοπαθής ή ναρκισσίστρια.Και εμένα πολύ Μακιαβελικό με έβγαλε, δε το περίμενα
Βασικά εμείς έχουμε πάνω κάτω ίδια αποτελέσματα για άλλη μια φορά σε κάποιο τεστ

Τι σας έλεγα; 5/5 ο Αυτοκράτορας.4,1 Μακιαβελική; Σε αγαπώ.-
Εγω, μωρά μου λατρεμένα, πάρτε με, δικός σας:
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Gag, fuck and shit!
Εύγε, έτσι πρέπει να είμαστε, να πατάμε επί πτωμάτων για το σκοπό μας

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02-03-24

19:25
Εννοείται, το να είσαι διπλωματικός είναι δείγμα ευφυΐας κατά την άποψή μου, αρκεί να μη ξεφεύγει και σπα την ηθική.Ε εγώ το περίμενα λίγο. Και βασικά το προτιμώ από το να έβγαινα ψυχοπαθής ή ναρκισσίστρια.
Βασικά εμείς έχουμε πάνω κάτω ίδια αποτελέσματα για άλλη μια φορά σε κάποιο τεστ
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02-03-24

19:27
Αυτόματη ένωση συνεχόμενων μηνυμάτων:
Αναμενόμενα τα αποτελέσματα.... Για ορισμένους ( χμμμ δε λέω για ποιους)

02-03-24

20:12

02-03-24

21:50
Α και εμένα παρόμοιο αποτέλεσμα , αλλά δεν μου φαίνεται σωστό το αποτέλεσμα.
Το θέμα είναι αν εμείς κρατάμε μυστικά πχ από τους υπόλοιπους και όχι αν θεωρούμε καλό να κρατάει κανείς μυστικά . Είναι σαν λέει πως πρέπει να γίνει κανείς ηγεμόνας η τέλος πάντων να επιβιώσει ; ε συμφωνούμε με τον Μακιαβέλι , τι θα πούμε να πηγαίνεις με το σταυρό στο χέρι ;

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02-03-24

21:56
ψέματα
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02-03-24

22:03
gag fuck and shit -- her edition
Valder likes.-
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02-11-24

10:21
https://enneagramuniverse.com/enneagram/test
You Are Most Like type 7:
The Enthusiast
Enneagram type 7 is the restless explorer. As a Type 7, you always go after whatever makes you feel alive. You are like Pandora’s Box: no one knows what’s coming next. Spontaneous, versatile, and highly stimulated Sevens are up to new and intense things.
CORE DESIRE:
To be satisfied.
CORE FEAR:
Being deprived.
Enneagram 7: Overview
Imagine one of those typical quiet Sundays when nothing happens and everything seems as deserted as ghost towns in western movies. Well, Type 7s’ lives are the complete opposite. Even in a desert you can find something to do or goals to achieve. But sometimes the emotion involved in finding the oasis can make other sources of water go unnoticed. Despite this, Sevens know it’s worth it. Like a butterfly, you flutter around chasing beauty and joy. Life is a plethora of experiences and the Enthusiast wants them all. You’ve got a thirst for life, but due to your lack of balance, Sevens end up never getting satisfied.
What Motivates you?
Satisfaction and joy. Life is beautiful, mysterious, and infinite. In some way, Enneagram Type 7s can’t stand the idea of leaving this world without seeing everything and finding what’s out there. Every single moment of pain is even more painful if you think it’s a waste of time. As a Seven fighting against these feelings, anxiety escalates in your mind just like King Kong scaled the Empire State Building. Actions are slower than thoughts, which in the Enthusiasts’ case seem to travel on a bullet train. Very used to that rhythm, your thoughts can lose track since you don’t really know what to pay attention to first. Everything seems so amazing and valuable!
Always dancing to Celia Cruz’s song, Enneagram Type 7s feel like life is a carnival and pain goes away just by singing or thinking about newer and more challenging ideas. It’s such a pity that you need to sleep, huh? C’mon evolution!
How do you think?
Let’s go back to the King Kong’s scene. Enneagram 7s may be wondering why on earth that would be useful. And you’re right; it’s not. At all. However, it is important that as a Seven you understand how obsessed you can be with doing only useful things. Relax and keep reading, Seven. Back to the scene. There is something we can highlight: the Empire State of Mind. With Type 7s’ highly stimulated, resourceful, and out-of-hand mind, every seed seems to grow in its soil. But, seeds can also perish as you go for another crazy idea that very same seed brought to your mind. Experiences are the wind that blows through Type 7s’ minds; you feel easily amazed by worldly things. The Enthusiasts’ eyes, like the ones of a scientist, observe everything around with an honest thirst for knowledge. “Welcome to the circus of life!” said the doctor who once brought a Seven to this world. Well, in reality the doctor had said, “circle”, but in Seven’s enthusiasm and excitement upon its arrival, it obviously misheard it!
90%
very high
CURIOUS
You’re energetic and always generate new ideas
30%
very high
FOCUSED
You have a hard time trying to focus
65%
very high
RISK TAKER
You can be impulsive
Love can be the most attractive thing for Enneagram type 7s. It feels like the first love, when a life story becomes a movie watched in the front row seat, filled with all those incredible feelings as “Fireworks” by Katy Perry plays in the background. This is what 7s look like getting lost in fields of love, finding everything running fast and intense like the trilogy of “Before Sunrise.” 7s have love stories like this and should be glad.
You are a huge fan of love since it represents the plenitude of life and it gives you unbelievable shots of energy to face life as it should be faced. But as soon as your idealization approaches reality, you can feel disappointed and alone. It’s hard to compromise and stand by something that’s not exactly as you imagined.
Enneagram Wings
The Entertainer
This type is the joker of the group, the most childlike. Like a good 7, you are experience-oriented, but the 6 influence gives you the ability to go slower and create bonds with people. You love to fill up your schedules and check out everything that life has to offer. If you’re in good company, that’s even better. But when it comes to focus and specific expertise, you feel troubled. Learning to settle down and commit to one thing is one of the hardest things for you to do.
The Realist
This subtype is as excited about living as the 7s but with the same aggressive touch when it comes to reaching your goals as 8s. Dynamic as you are, you go through life with a clear mind. Pragmatic and task-focused, you choose a target and go for it. Life is a source of abundance, and the realist wants to experience it all. The problem is when, as a 7, you can’t satisfy your appetite. With the determination the 8s give you, staying in the present—here and now—is the best thing to do.
In the average state, it’s easy to get excited with new projects. Sevens’ minds picture incredibly funny scenarios, things you get to try, places you want to go to, and so on. Life is promising. This gets Type 7s high for a while, but everything that goes up must come down, eventually. You hate the low downs, the flat zones. So, as soon as you start feeling trapped by boredom or time, you take a deep breath and run back like thunder. The good thing is that your sparkling energy usually takes you to interesting places where your eyes—trained to see opportunities and pleasure everywhere—always find nurturing experiences you can learn from. If as an Enneagram 7 you allow yourself to stare, great things can grow. Your agile mind, always looking for beauty and pleasure, is able to create those experiences too.
When the bike is OK, when the chain is lubed up, and the brakes work well, it’s time for Type 7s to adventure down the chosen trail. You just need to pedal up and you’ll come back home like E.T. With the spell that made Sevens see light where there were only reflections broken, you live in a mirage. Although scary to consider, surrendering often brings exactly what you are fighting for. Thanks to the Enthusiasts’ magnificent awareness, you are capable of feeling wisdom and joy just where you are. That does not make you settle, but value every stage as a destination. Finally, Type 7s meet and enjoy peace. No more anxiety surrounding all the things you are missing. You’ve finally chosen which aspect of life to embody without trying to live all of them at once. You feel grateful, and everything seems like an open field.
Just a little swipe is enough to go from the healthy state to the unhealthy one. It’s always best to be wary and avoid speeding up on a bike with broken brakes. Type 7s know what enrolling in a lot of activities feels like, going from one activity to the other while life passes by. Time becomes something one uses up and not something one is given, just like a fork is a tool used to eat and is unable to feed one by itself. For Sevens, It’s easy to forget your priorities while the clock is ticking, so you end up losing sight of what you want or desire, who you want to be, and what your limits are. Like time, everything is relative, so you find you are stepping on your shadow’s shadow just to run more quickly away from it. Observing from afar, one might think Sevens are escaping from it; however, in reality, you are actually running towards it.
Tips to Help You Grow:
You are not Forest, so stop running (unless you decide that’s very important to you). Despite your mind’s ability to expand and your impressive craving for life, it’s important you establish priorities. Believe in the potential of your decisions. Sometimes you fill your schedule with different activities as you wish you were 10 different people at the same time. But which one of them is aligned with the future you want to live in? Find what you excel at and study it, and dedicate yourself to it with all the passion that characterizes you.
I know that the exciting flow of new ideas makes you feel like you’re at Disneyland. But, before you scream “YES!”, please remember the actual time and effort things take to be accomplished. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and monumental things last for generations. So, I bet if you find something that you are passionate about you would want to look at it closely like a biologist looking at each detail of flowers and frogs with a magnifying glass. At a slower pace, you’ll be able to appreciate what’s around you, to discover precious information about the world and about you.
Visualize how you want to feel and start to make conscious changes to achieve that. You may need to do things you’ve never done before.
Get some air. Meditation and conscious breathing can help you manage anxiety and be kind to yourself.
Being thankful for what we have is a great exercise to value the present and the past. This will fill you with an abundance of gratitude.
Pain doesn’t let me be me all the time. How can I better deal with it?
We are made of every little thing that happens to us and how we deal with it. This especially pertains to how we decide to cope with our pain. There is an unlimited source of self-discovery there too. If you only identify yourself with joy and excitement, times of sadness or distress it will be tough on you, which might get worse due to the unfamiliarity and uncertainty. That pain is part of you, too. Allow yourself to view the pictures created by the nostalgic self inside of you. I’m sure there is something that needs some attention and is blocking you from making it right.
Focus? That’s for cameras.
Yes, you’re right, dear 7. But don’t you see the similarity? Allow me to explain: You love beautiful and incredible things, you love to share amazing experiences with other people, even more if you are a 7 with a 6 wing. Your definition of life is constantly defined by the way you look at it. That’s something that happens to all of us, but your speciality is to see an abundance of opportunities everywhere and get excited by that. But, like cameras that convert transient moments into eternal shots, the photo’s composition will be determined by your focus. Even the most wonderful landscape can’t be enjoyed without the right focus. Focusing will organize your experience and give you the capability to act with more impact throughout life. Do you want to do something for the world? Focus! Your energy needs to be channeled!
I’m afraid of dying without doing all the things I want to do. Help me!
If it was up to you, you’d do different and extraordinary things every day. At the same time you want to play the guitar and be as great as Slash, but you also want to be the best chef and travel the world with Gordom Ramsey. You play the guitar and learn how to cook, but suddenly it seems like a great idea to start learning Japanese. Frustration is inevitable in this lifestyle. So it’s best if you complete cycles. Try to slow down. When you start to speed up, stop. Breathe and look within yourself to learn what’s going on inside of you. By trying to do a little bit of everything, you might end up doing nothing. Complete your tasks, and try to focus while doing them. Enjoy the process. Steady steps will lead you where you need to be. And you’ll become an expert at specific fields. If you want to be a chef, well, let other people be the guitar hero. Enjoy listening to guitar concerts; inspire yourself to leave your mark with your abilities. I bet you can.
Will I feel satisfied with my life some day? And if I will, can you tell me when exactly? I want to put it on my agenda.
Ok, it’s going to be tomorrow. Or the next day. It’s always going to be a future date if you expect to find satisfaction on the outside. But satisfaction only comes when you’re aware of the present. You might be living the experience of your dreams, yet don’t even notice it if you’re worried about the abstraction of happiness. In the movie of your life, the audience screams at you, “Hey! Wake up! Don’t miss this chance!” The present is a plethora of experiences to live, more nurturing and consistent than any fleeting pleasure. How can you reconnect to yourself? Don’t start anything new for a week, take your time to watch your life, and give yourself a break to discover what you are scared of. And repeat slowly: I’m not late to get anywhere.
You Are Most Like type 7:
The Enthusiast
Enneagram type 7 is the restless explorer. As a Type 7, you always go after whatever makes you feel alive. You are like Pandora’s Box: no one knows what’s coming next. Spontaneous, versatile, and highly stimulated Sevens are up to new and intense things.

CORE DESIRE:
To be satisfied.

CORE FEAR:
Being deprived.
Enneagram 7: Overview
Imagine one of those typical quiet Sundays when nothing happens and everything seems as deserted as ghost towns in western movies. Well, Type 7s’ lives are the complete opposite. Even in a desert you can find something to do or goals to achieve. But sometimes the emotion involved in finding the oasis can make other sources of water go unnoticed. Despite this, Sevens know it’s worth it. Like a butterfly, you flutter around chasing beauty and joy. Life is a plethora of experiences and the Enthusiast wants them all. You’ve got a thirst for life, but due to your lack of balance, Sevens end up never getting satisfied.
What Motivates you?
Satisfaction and joy. Life is beautiful, mysterious, and infinite. In some way, Enneagram Type 7s can’t stand the idea of leaving this world without seeing everything and finding what’s out there. Every single moment of pain is even more painful if you think it’s a waste of time. As a Seven fighting against these feelings, anxiety escalates in your mind just like King Kong scaled the Empire State Building. Actions are slower than thoughts, which in the Enthusiasts’ case seem to travel on a bullet train. Very used to that rhythm, your thoughts can lose track since you don’t really know what to pay attention to first. Everything seems so amazing and valuable!
Always dancing to Celia Cruz’s song, Enneagram Type 7s feel like life is a carnival and pain goes away just by singing or thinking about newer and more challenging ideas. It’s such a pity that you need to sleep, huh? C’mon evolution!
How do you think?
Let’s go back to the King Kong’s scene. Enneagram 7s may be wondering why on earth that would be useful. And you’re right; it’s not. At all. However, it is important that as a Seven you understand how obsessed you can be with doing only useful things. Relax and keep reading, Seven. Back to the scene. There is something we can highlight: the Empire State of Mind. With Type 7s’ highly stimulated, resourceful, and out-of-hand mind, every seed seems to grow in its soil. But, seeds can also perish as you go for another crazy idea that very same seed brought to your mind. Experiences are the wind that blows through Type 7s’ minds; you feel easily amazed by worldly things. The Enthusiasts’ eyes, like the ones of a scientist, observe everything around with an honest thirst for knowledge. “Welcome to the circus of life!” said the doctor who once brought a Seven to this world. Well, in reality the doctor had said, “circle”, but in Seven’s enthusiasm and excitement upon its arrival, it obviously misheard it!
90%
very high
CURIOUS
You’re energetic and always generate new ideas
30%
very high
FOCUSED
You have a hard time trying to focus
65%
very high
RISK TAKER
You can be impulsive
How do you love?
Love can be the most attractive thing for Enneagram type 7s. It feels like the first love, when a life story becomes a movie watched in the front row seat, filled with all those incredible feelings as “Fireworks” by Katy Perry plays in the background. This is what 7s look like getting lost in fields of love, finding everything running fast and intense like the trilogy of “Before Sunrise.” 7s have love stories like this and should be glad.
You are a huge fan of love since it represents the plenitude of life and it gives you unbelievable shots of energy to face life as it should be faced. But as soon as your idealization approaches reality, you can feel disappointed and alone. It’s hard to compromise and stand by something that’s not exactly as you imagined.
Enneagram Wings

Enneagram 7 Wing 6:
The Entertainer
This type is the joker of the group, the most childlike. Like a good 7, you are experience-oriented, but the 6 influence gives you the ability to go slower and create bonds with people. You love to fill up your schedules and check out everything that life has to offer. If you’re in good company, that’s even better. But when it comes to focus and specific expertise, you feel troubled. Learning to settle down and commit to one thing is one of the hardest things for you to do.

Enneagram 7 Wing 8:
The Realist
This subtype is as excited about living as the 7s but with the same aggressive touch when it comes to reaching your goals as 8s. Dynamic as you are, you go through life with a clear mind. Pragmatic and task-focused, you choose a target and go for it. Life is a source of abundance, and the realist wants to experience it all. The problem is when, as a 7, you can’t satisfy your appetite. With the determination the 8s give you, staying in the present—here and now—is the best thing to do.
The Average Seven
In the average state, it’s easy to get excited with new projects. Sevens’ minds picture incredibly funny scenarios, things you get to try, places you want to go to, and so on. Life is promising. This gets Type 7s high for a while, but everything that goes up must come down, eventually. You hate the low downs, the flat zones. So, as soon as you start feeling trapped by boredom or time, you take a deep breath and run back like thunder. The good thing is that your sparkling energy usually takes you to interesting places where your eyes—trained to see opportunities and pleasure everywhere—always find nurturing experiences you can learn from. If as an Enneagram 7 you allow yourself to stare, great things can grow. Your agile mind, always looking for beauty and pleasure, is able to create those experiences too.
The Healthy Seven
When the bike is OK, when the chain is lubed up, and the brakes work well, it’s time for Type 7s to adventure down the chosen trail. You just need to pedal up and you’ll come back home like E.T. With the spell that made Sevens see light where there were only reflections broken, you live in a mirage. Although scary to consider, surrendering often brings exactly what you are fighting for. Thanks to the Enthusiasts’ magnificent awareness, you are capable of feeling wisdom and joy just where you are. That does not make you settle, but value every stage as a destination. Finally, Type 7s meet and enjoy peace. No more anxiety surrounding all the things you are missing. You’ve finally chosen which aspect of life to embody without trying to live all of them at once. You feel grateful, and everything seems like an open field.
The Unhealthy Seven
Just a little swipe is enough to go from the healthy state to the unhealthy one. It’s always best to be wary and avoid speeding up on a bike with broken brakes. Type 7s know what enrolling in a lot of activities feels like, going from one activity to the other while life passes by. Time becomes something one uses up and not something one is given, just like a fork is a tool used to eat and is unable to feed one by itself. For Sevens, It’s easy to forget your priorities while the clock is ticking, so you end up losing sight of what you want or desire, who you want to be, and what your limits are. Like time, everything is relative, so you find you are stepping on your shadow’s shadow just to run more quickly away from it. Observing from afar, one might think Sevens are escaping from it; however, in reality, you are actually running towards it.
Tips to Help You Grow:
You are not Forest, so stop running (unless you decide that’s very important to you). Despite your mind’s ability to expand and your impressive craving for life, it’s important you establish priorities. Believe in the potential of your decisions. Sometimes you fill your schedule with different activities as you wish you were 10 different people at the same time. But which one of them is aligned with the future you want to live in? Find what you excel at and study it, and dedicate yourself to it with all the passion that characterizes you.
I know that the exciting flow of new ideas makes you feel like you’re at Disneyland. But, before you scream “YES!”, please remember the actual time and effort things take to be accomplished. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and monumental things last for generations. So, I bet if you find something that you are passionate about you would want to look at it closely like a biologist looking at each detail of flowers and frogs with a magnifying glass. At a slower pace, you’ll be able to appreciate what’s around you, to discover precious information about the world and about you.
Your Main Challenges: How to address them?
FOCUS
Visualize how you want to feel and start to make conscious changes to achieve that. You may need to do things you’ve never done before.
MEDITATE
Get some air. Meditation and conscious breathing can help you manage anxiety and be kind to yourself.
GRATITUDE
Being thankful for what we have is a great exercise to value the present and the past. This will fill you with an abundance of gratitude.
How To Be The Best Version Of The yourself?
Pain doesn’t let me be me all the time. How can I better deal with it?
We are made of every little thing that happens to us and how we deal with it. This especially pertains to how we decide to cope with our pain. There is an unlimited source of self-discovery there too. If you only identify yourself with joy and excitement, times of sadness or distress it will be tough on you, which might get worse due to the unfamiliarity and uncertainty. That pain is part of you, too. Allow yourself to view the pictures created by the nostalgic self inside of you. I’m sure there is something that needs some attention and is blocking you from making it right.
Focus? That’s for cameras.
Yes, you’re right, dear 7. But don’t you see the similarity? Allow me to explain: You love beautiful and incredible things, you love to share amazing experiences with other people, even more if you are a 7 with a 6 wing. Your definition of life is constantly defined by the way you look at it. That’s something that happens to all of us, but your speciality is to see an abundance of opportunities everywhere and get excited by that. But, like cameras that convert transient moments into eternal shots, the photo’s composition will be determined by your focus. Even the most wonderful landscape can’t be enjoyed without the right focus. Focusing will organize your experience and give you the capability to act with more impact throughout life. Do you want to do something for the world? Focus! Your energy needs to be channeled!
I’m afraid of dying without doing all the things I want to do. Help me!
If it was up to you, you’d do different and extraordinary things every day. At the same time you want to play the guitar and be as great as Slash, but you also want to be the best chef and travel the world with Gordom Ramsey. You play the guitar and learn how to cook, but suddenly it seems like a great idea to start learning Japanese. Frustration is inevitable in this lifestyle. So it’s best if you complete cycles. Try to slow down. When you start to speed up, stop. Breathe and look within yourself to learn what’s going on inside of you. By trying to do a little bit of everything, you might end up doing nothing. Complete your tasks, and try to focus while doing them. Enjoy the process. Steady steps will lead you where you need to be. And you’ll become an expert at specific fields. If you want to be a chef, well, let other people be the guitar hero. Enjoy listening to guitar concerts; inspire yourself to leave your mark with your abilities. I bet you can.
Will I feel satisfied with my life some day? And if I will, can you tell me when exactly? I want to put it on my agenda.
Ok, it’s going to be tomorrow. Or the next day. It’s always going to be a future date if you expect to find satisfaction on the outside. But satisfaction only comes when you’re aware of the present. You might be living the experience of your dreams, yet don’t even notice it if you’re worried about the abstraction of happiness. In the movie of your life, the audience screams at you, “Hey! Wake up! Don’t miss this chance!” The present is a plethora of experiences to live, more nurturing and consistent than any fleeting pleasure. How can you reconnect to yourself? Don’t start anything new for a week, take your time to watch your life, and give yourself a break to discover what you are scared of. And repeat slowly: I’m not late to get anywhere.

02-11-24

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You Are Most Like type 5: The Investigator![]()
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The thinker, the innovator, the observer. Enneagram Type 5 is part of the Head Triad, the one who wants to reveal how the world works and to unveil the mystery of life, but is afraid of the biggest mystery: yourself.
CORE DESIRE: To be capable or competent
CORE FEAR: Being incompetent
Enneagram 5: Overview
Welcome, welcome to the Type 5 spectacular home! Type 5s have an amazing spectrum of possibilities. From the deepest place within you, you can gaze at the space and wonder about the highest matters and seek the more complicated answers. The Investigator thinks that the better you know the world around you, the safer it will be. But the truth is that you desire to be an expert in the field of your interest. For Enneagram Fives, doing it right is not enough. You need to go beyond, break the wall, and take a leap into the unknown. This fearless (and thrilling) attitude is exclusive to your thoughts; that’s why you withdraw into your interstellar home and prioritize thinking over doing.
What Motivates you?
Being useful, competent, capable of something great. Leaving your mark. These are the things that keep Enneagram 5s’ sparkle burning. In depth, you hate the idea of being a useless good-for-nothing, and that’s where your unstoppable effort to become an expert in things finds its impetus. Also important is the need to unveil stuff that is buried to anyone else. As a Type 5, you think you are only worth it if you are capable and if you demonstrate how distinctive you are. However, Five’s passion for exploring goes beyond and takes over everything. For most people, it is amazing to reach incredible discoveries and discover new questions, but for Type 5s, it’s your daily engine. The things that happen inside the minds of Enneagram Type 5s would blow other people’s minds, but sometimes you get so deep within yourself that it’s difficult to share and relate with other human beings. This is not to say that Type Fives are reptilian, but it is not saying you aren’t either. (Pssst: if you are a reptilian, feel free to reveal the secret of human evolution. That’s not asking too much, is it?)
How do you think?
We don’t have a crystal ball, but it is clear that as a Type Five, you are a little detached from your environment, as if you were hanging from a big balloon that keeps you living your adventure up high. It is hard to blame you; it’s a wild world, so withdrawing from it into better and more imaginative places is a great option to preserve the mind. Still, nothing lasts forever, and someday something might pop the Enneagram 5’s balloon, so you had better get your tools to build a home on the ground. Your challenge? To enhance your natural abilities, your genius, and assimilate them into a healthy balance with reality.
INNOVATIVE: 90%, very high
You’re genuinely curious and willing to learn new skills
SOCIAL: 30%, very high (Εh?)
You need alone time and keep your circle small
OBSERVANT: 65%, very high
You enjoy observing others
How do you love?
If for some people love makes them walk on the moon, for Type 5s love is a bridge to reality. In fact, it’s the only way you choose to connect with reality. As a Five, you look for a long lasting love, someone you can really trust, someone special to share your insecurities and eccentricity with. It’s easy as a Five to open your heart to your special someone. You become communicative and loyal. Your strong sexuality encourages you to take a chance and let the other person enter your sacred worlds.
However, when something makes you feel unsafe, you withdraw into your mind and disappear. When this occurs, it can be baffling to your significant others. But, sooner than later—if the relationship is worth it—Type Fives will determine another way to manage that situation.
Enneagram Wings
Enneagram 5 Wing 4: The Iconoclast
This kind is known for withdrawing entirely into your inner world to make amazing discoveries. You surf brain waves that constantly break onto new knowledge shores. In this wing, as a 4, you freshen up your mood by updating some events related to your feelings and the outer world. You are usually very disconnected from the environment; the 4 wing plays its role by connecting you with reality.
Enneagram 5 Wing 6: The Problem Solver
This subtype is the analytical and curious one who is always questioning and unveiling how things work. Very practical and handy, you use your discipline to get to reliable discoveries. Once focused, you have surgical attention. Don’t get surprised, because your brilliance can open amazing doors and dazzle us.
The Average Five
In the average state, Type 5s are like an old man that scares away kids that are just playing in his front yard. “Get out of here! You’re disturbing me, you lil’ demons!” (Ok, not that antisocial, but you definitely don’t want to be distracted from your thoughts when you’re developing a big idea or project.) As an Enneagram Five, you think people won’t understand things even if you explain them, and explaining takes way too much time, so you just withdraw from the world. Like a crazy scientist, Type 5s keep on persevering and trying different solutions. You study and think of ways to reach your goal more effectively. For you, it’s disturbing how some people can remain attached to old beliefs, so breaking these beliefs every once in a while can be fun. Like Doctor Emmet Brown, the Investigator thinks, “If you put your mind to it, you can accomplish anything,” and nothing can stop you. There are no pain, limitations, and nos.
The Healthy Five
Brrrr. But…the show must go on! Dark periods are mysteriously necessary. And when as an Enneagram Type 5 you recall how you felt in your golden times, you withstand and find yourself able to push through anything. Full of new and powerful resources, you develop your Valyrian steel to fight against your fears. In other words, Fives have the power to vanish every scary simulation of pain and misgiving. By banishing your insecurities, you are able to see your potential and become more playful with your capabilities. As a result, as an Investigator you reinforce your self-image, relax, and become more participative and social. The interaction flows and nurtures you with useful data to manage yourself. Suddenly, things aren’t as scary as they seemed to be because Type 5s are strong; you can deal with challenges you are faced with, and you can transform them.
The Unhealthy Five
As a Type 5, when in an unhealthy state, you think the world is an empty place that has nothing to offer you and you have nothing to give back. You find no place to stay, to be, or to feel like you belong. Withdrawing from the world is just so recurrent that Type 5s would often rather never return to reality. You renounce everything that makes you feel safe but at the same time know there are some remaining fears orbiting your mind as you are in a constant state of alarm. Enneagram Fives feel hopeless and powerless because “the night is dark and full of terrors.” Your mind has entered a harmful cycle that slowly and intensively degrades you; it’s a nightmare from which The Investigator can’t wake up. You can’t discern between what is real and what has been created by your fears. Suffering is the only possible reaction for you in facing such a terrible world. As a Five you willingly withdraw from yourself (black curtains descend).
Tips to Help You Grow:
If you’re going up, remember to leave an anchor. Like it or not, this abstraction is one of the nuances of your genius. Silence, solitude, and isolation help you develop your thought synergy. That’s why it’s important that you help yourself not to lose the path even when you’re down. Build your lighthouse, write down your maritime code, and best of all, respect the immensity of your ocean. As Emily Dickinson wrote: “To multiply the harbors does not reduce the sea.” But, at least you have some places that connect with the mainland. We know more about space than we know about the ocean. If your mind can’t discover something, it will at least imagine what’s beyond it.
Explore, go further, but don’t forget the way home. Perhaps choosing some physical activities that allow you to connect with your feelings and the present can guide you to finding a balance. Try to attach to a few real items that objectively connect you to what is happening around you. And, of course, build a safety backup with those people you really trust. I’ve once learned that a scuba diver’s first rule is “Nobody dives alone.” Maybe it will work for you, too.
Try to attach to a few real items that objectively connect you to what is happening around you. And of course, build a safety back up with those people you really trust. I’ve once learned that scuba diver’s first rule is: “nobody dives alone”. Maybe it will work for you too.
Your Main Challenges: How to address them?
CONNECT: Dedicate at least one hour to do something that involves physical activity to connect with your whole body.
AWARENESS: When a feeling comes up, count to 10 while facing it with scientific curiosity but a compassionate attitude.
HEALTHINESS: Start updating people on your thoughts and ask them about their projects. This will make room for long soul-nurturing chats.
How To Be The Best Version of yourself? What is the best way to act regarding my self-absorption?
Connecting with your body is one of the most important challenges you have ahead. You could spend so much time on your bodily needs that you need to start paying attention to what you are feeling and how it feels. Take note! It may seem bothersome, but it’s a great practice to study yourself and your feelings. Don’t run from them or try to distract yourself with something else. Stay. Just as someone you love would do, be present with yourself when you feel bad. When the connection is done, the intuition will take over. This will give you more confidence to deal with real stuff, developing your leadership. Suddenly, you’ll be turning everything you create in your fruitful private land into reality. We spend most of our lives in airplane mode, letting our personalities guide us. When we are aligned and connected to who we are, we stop chasing rainbows and shadows—we stop running.
How will I know if I’m in tune with my intuition?
Intuition is like activating our already-installed how-to that was never used before because we were too busy trying to write our own instructions. When that happens, you won’t take things personally, since you understand that everyone is reflecting their own inner fiction just as you used to do before your awakening. Compassion is your new language and you know how to face your fears in a functional way. You know that every time you feel the need to withdraw, it just means that something is trespassing your limits, so you learn how to communicate that and take care of your sensitivity.
Why am I so tenacious to achieve that bigger something?
The insatiable thirst of knowledge you have comes from an old memory of abundance and greatness. That’s why you are so determined to track the universe’s wealth hidden in some hidden point in our minds. There is some tragic beauty in your determination to find it as you tend to search in remote places, far from the natural source of your essence. Monumental efforts to fit into this world will drain your energy if you don’t embrace the joys of being who you are.
How can I build my own lighthouses to save me from being adrift in my personal terrors?
Everyone will tell you to get some sleep or to take a walk. But you know that anxiety, when turned on, is an unstoppable radio that keeps on narrating even when you are dying inside. The walls shrink and the roof falls onto your chest. The height and size of the world are pressing upon your lungs and the best thing to do is run away. Fear is contagious and distortive, so it’s easy to get lost in its elusive labyrinths. Anchors, lighthouses, and rituals are some of the keys that open the gate that will bring you back home. But, which of them will work for you? How can you build them? You can do so with the help of memories, smells, photos, specific textures, readings, and whatever evokes in you the same feeling every time and warms up your heart. Come back to your senses, sing a song or play it, and the most important part: don’t be scared of your fear. It’s telling you something that needs to be heard. And it will come back if you don’t embrace it and ask it what it needs. Slowly, with the patience of a flower, you will blossom into your own spring. It might sound cliché, but the darkest time of dawn is right before the sunrise.
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